Is Love Blind ? 🤔

People keep saying that love is blind and whatnot. I always believe that love is the one that make people go blind.

Why do people say love is blind then? To be honest, the wording is slightly wrong since love isn't a living thing or anything and saying that it is blind is merely putting in personification to "love". It is just a metaphor and I still strongly believe that love is the "thing" that simply make people blind.

This picture states "infatuation is blind". Again, to reinstate my point, infatuation is simply a personification in this case. :\

Outsiders, like myself, tend to overlook this "logic" and the people involved wouldn't believe in us when we state our opinion. So I guess it's better to just keep quiet since ignorance is bliss. Let them suffer and learn from it. They will find out eventually coz "once bitten, twice shy".

Two Faced

Ever wondered how easily someone can be two faced? It is pretty easy actually.

Shakespeare said, "To be or not to be, that is the question." In other words, you make the decision on whether you want to be two faced or not. Being alive for 20 years 9 months and 3 days has taught me many things indeed.

People can be such a hypocrite.

It's easier said than done though. It's funny how everyone is going on about how one should not judge and all, but truth is, everyone judge. Everyone can be open minded but the truth is no one is actually open minded like they said. So does that mean that everyone is two faced at some point of time?

I think everyone is guilty of this; I know I am. I used to think that by doing this I am indeed "fitting in". I realised "fitting in" isn't necessary because you only need a few people that actually cares. You don't need the whole world to back you up. If you have someone that is willing to be there for you, that's enough.

This quote still stays true till today...

I'M FINE

I was fine by myself when this happens. I certainly believe that I can live well by myself. I tend to wallow myself and let the darkness consumed me and I will end up just fine. But really, was I fine?

Whenever someone said "i'm fine", you should NEVER ignore them and let the person be. Sometimes, that person just needs a hand she can hold, a ear that listens to her or even a shoulder she can cry on.

The world is going on at a fast pace. People says that we should catch up with the world if not we get lagged behind. If everyone does this, who will be there in the end? Everyone will be too busy to even notice others.

Stop moving life too fast, if not, you will never know when someone needs you.

FRIENDS

They say all relationship will bound to come to an end. Only family will stick with you till the end.

All my life, I always value friends before family. I could always open myself up more to friends than family. To be honest, I am quite awkward with my own family though I live with them.

Once, my teacher asked us to rank our values; I chose money, friends then family. A merely 20 year old girl believes that money is the most important thing in the world. I was quite puzzled when my friends answered family as first. I've been raised to think that money is the most important. I've come to terms maybe friends is as important as money though I never forgo the thought that money is still my priority. :\

Growing up, I've come to sense that friends come and go; families are just there. I've never really had someone I can call a best friend. At most, I would "label" my friends as close friends. No one was ever in my "best friend list". To me, close friends are the highest rankings I could ever allow strangers to be at. It's sad to say that I've been living like this but like I said, friends do come and go; families are just there.

If you are my friend and you are reading this, feel free to pack up your bags and leave me. I will get used to your disappearance.